Lack of Self confidence and low self esteem

Successful treatment and help for the lack of confidence, shyness, blushing and low self esteem in Poole, Bournemouth, Wimborne and Dorset using hypnosis and hypnotherapy.

Hypnosis and hypnotherapy can be effective treatment to help you deal with confidence and self esteem issues and so help to change negative thoughts and feelings. A good example of this could be exam nerves, a job interview or perhaps taking your driving test.


Failing to achieve your full potential due to low self-esteem and lack of confidence can hold you back throughout your life. Below are some examples:

  • Not liking to try new things
  • Feeling you can’t do anything right
  • Having a hard time meeting new people and making friends
  • Becoming easily embarrassed and blushing
  • Thinking “I can’t do it.” before trying or doing something new
  • Worry about being rejected
  • Thinking you may fail, always worrying about what might happen
  • Feeling overwhelmed by social functions
  • Problems with relationships
  • Feeling really shy
  • Always feeling everyone else is better than you
  • Not feeling as though you deserve something that you have achieved

Lack of confidence & low self esteem in Poole, Bournemouth and Dorset.Everything we react to in our lives is formed from an experience, something we have learned. If we react to certain situations with a lack of confidence, then we can learn to react in a way that is positive and feels natural.

By changing your perspective to a positive outlook and thinking about what you could do will put you back in control. If you tell yourself positive things and keep saying to yourself that you can do it, it will become easier and easier for you to start believing in yourself. Be kind to yourself: you wouldn’t say negative things to a friend, tell them they couldn’t do something or run their confidence down, so why do this to yourself?

What we put in, we get out. Put reassuring, positive and happier thoughts in to your mind and you will start to increase your self-esteem and confidence to a far higher level. You may be thinking “why can’t I be better at……?” or “why is my colleague so much better at…….?” Change this round and tell yourself you can be as good as someone else, or improve a certain skill. So much in life is down to self-belief and if we have this, we have so much more freedom within ourselves. Self-talking has a lot to answer for; we have the power to do this in a negative or positive way, and if we choose to go down the positive route we can create so many more opportunities for ourselves.

If you believe in yourself, other people will believe in you.

Feeling more self-belief and assurance will help your confidence and self-esteem to grow, giving you the motivation and confidence to take control of your life.

  • Have positive thoughts about your own abilities
  • Focus on your strengths
  • Looking positively about situations
  • Feeling much more assertive
  • Giving yourself credit for your achievements
  • Being much more at ease with yourself
  • Looking to the future in a positive way

Take steps today that will lead to a change tomorrow for the better.

What treatment is available?

There are two ways to help to treat deep routed problems related to a lack of confidence, the first one being Hypno-analysis (analytical hypnotherapy) which is in essence cause and effect therapy and can be very effective in helping to treat low self esteem. Once the bottled up emotions are released then the symptoms can cease to be, allowing you to be free from your past problems.

The other way is to use Clinical Hypnotherapy combined with a Positive Thinking Styles course which can also prove a very effective therapy in treating these unwanted feelings.

Using positive suggestions and some enhanced visualisation skills, can help to change your perception from a negative thought pattern to a positive one.

For any more information about self confidence and low self esteem or to book a free initial consultation please call Rob on 01202 245020 or 07920 885015.

Confidentiality is strictly observed at all times.